Rooted
Potty Method
A routines-based, expert-backed, self-paced potty training program with real guidance for every stage
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Imagine the potty just... not being a thing anymore.
Your toddler heads there on their own. No negotiating, no asking 100 times, and no praying they don’t have an accident every time you leave hte house. You finally trust the plan (instead of second-guessing every move).
This is what you learn inside the Rooted Potty Method.
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That’s what I will help you achieve inside the Rooted Potty Method!
“Jessica also has a toolbox full of ideas and wisdom for every component of potty training that your child might be struggling with (ie motivation, sensory issues, fear, etc.). Her support kept me going when I would have given up on my own!”
-Mom of 3 year-old boy
“Having Jessica’s plan in my back pocket made me confident we were doing the right thing, and she picked up on the fact that I wasn’t nervous and believed she could do it!”
-Mom of 3.5 year-old girl
“My son willingly initiates going pee on the potty now and keeps having more and more success with poop. Most importantly, his mental block towards potty training has dissipated and he is proud of his progress and the fact that he no longer wears diapers!”
-Mom of 3 year-old boy (second potty training attempt)
The Rooted Potty Method is for you if:
Your child is between 12 months - 4+ years old
You feel overwhelmed, anxious, or stressed out about potty training
You want a realistic, OT-backed potty training plan that actually works (but right now that feels way easier said than done!)
You have never tried potty training before OR you have tried in the past and it didn’t go well
You’re fed up with prompting your toddler to "go potty" 100 times a day (and the inevitable power struggle that comes with it each time)
You’re past the initial potty training stage but still struggling with things like frequent accidents, potty refusal, or poop problems
You just want all things potty to just be less stressful so you can focus on spending your days doing what you actually WANT to be doing
Mom of 3 year-old boy:
“I think this format is what is missing from all the parenting resources out there! The individualized support and community of other people with similar-aged kids going through the same thing is a MAJOR help.”
Why I created the Rooted Potty Method
Potty training doesn’t have to break you. Early in my OT career working in schools and early intervention, I saw the same pattern over and over. Parents were desperate for potty training help. Not because they weren’t trying, but because they had no clear place to start. Everyone was giving different advice, and much of it didn’t actually work in real life with a toddler.
That experience pushed me to dig deeper into the developmental, behavioral, and sensory components of potty training so I could better support the families I was working with.
Over the years, I’ve helped hundreds of families move from constant accidents, resistance, and frustration to confidently guiding their child to learn to use the potty using a clear, realistic plan.
That work became the foundation of what I now teach inside the Rooted Potty Method.
The Rooted Potty Method focuses on the skills kids actually need for potty training success, including:
body awareness
sensory processing
consistent routines
interoception (your child’s ability to recognize when their body needs to go)
When you understand these pieces, potty training becomes much less about pressure, rewards, or guesswork and much more about teaching your child the skills they need to become an independent potty user.
Inside the program, I walk you step-by-step through the Rooted Potty Method so you know exactly how to support your child in learning to use the potty — so you don’t have to piece it all together from Google searches, TikTok videos, your mother-in-law, or unsolicited advice on the internet. I can’t wait to help you through it!
Now let’s get your toddler out of diapers without losing your mind 😝
“All in all, I can’t believe how well this has gone. Thank you so much for your guidance! The program was great and I really love your even-keeled approach.”
-Mom of 2.5 year-old boy
“The hands-on support is SO valuable! Having someone to bounce the ‘what about this’ off is amazing!”
-Mom of 3.5 year-old girl
“I just want to say thank you!🙏🏼 I would not have made it through the weekend without all the support! It was a GAME-CHANGER for me in attempting training again, which I think in turn was a game-changer for my daughter. Thank you, thank you, thank you!”
-Mom of 3 year-old girl (third potty training attempt!)
What is included in the Rooted Potty Method program:
Immediate and forever access to the Rooted Potty Method audio course, a comprehensive, step-by-step, routines-based potty training plan that takes you all the way from potty prep through independence - $297 VALUE
Printable routines, charts, social stories, and checklists to use as visual tools that aide in the potty training journey - $197 value
Monthly LIVE potty training coaching calls with Jess to get real answers to your questions or roadblocks (recorded if you can’t make it live!) - $197/month VALUE
Potty training parent community access to collaborate with other parents going through the potty training process at the same time - PRICELESS!!
$690+ $197!
PHASE ONE: Build the Foundation
Understand why a routines-based, developmentally-friendly approach sets your child up for lasting potty success
Learn how to build potty awareness gradually through diaper changes, bathroom narration, potty books, and daily potty-sits — all before you ever officially begin
Discover the words, signs, and tools that create a consistent, low-pressure foundation for your child to understand what's coming
PHASE TWO: Get Ready & Commit
Learn how to recognize the real signs of readiness in your child (and understand why you don't need every single box checked before you begin)
Understand what the research actually says about timing, age, and the truth behind the "3-day method," so you know exactly what to expect
Discover how life circumstances and seasons play a role in choosing a start date that sets your family up for success
Gain confidence committing to your official start date, knowing you and your child are TRULY ready to begin!
PHASE THREE: Say Good-Bye to Diapers
Learn how to prepare your child, your home, and yourself for the Bye Bye Diapers Weekend
Understand exactly what to do (and what to avoid) during those first few days, from setting up your space to handling refusal, withholding, and motivation
Discover what's truly realistic to expect during the first weekend (including accidents, withholding, and big emotions ) so nothing catches you off guard
Gain confidence navigating the most common first weekend challenges, with scripts and strategies ready to use in any hard moment
PHASE FOUR: Move Forward
Discover how to confidently return to childcare after potty training begins, with practical strategies for communication, daily logistics, and staying consistent across school and home environments
Learn how to ease back into life outside the house, such as errands, outings, car rides, and social events
Understand how to navigate the next-level milestones, like introducing underwear, transitioning to the big toilet, and tackling public restrooms
Gain confidence handling travel and nighttime and nap training
PHASE FIVE: Tackle Common Challenges
Learn how to approach naps and night training in the coming weeks or months.
Gain confidence in handling ANY future potty training challenges that may arise.
FAQs:
Is the Rooted Potty Method a 3-day method?
No… with a little bit of yes? Potty training is a complex developmental skill that takes longer than 3 days to master. XXXX
Does it work for a child in daycare?
Yes! I recommend staying close to home during the official “Bye-Bye Diapers” weekend, but otherwise, there is no problem with your child being in full-time childcare - in fact, most of the kids are! (It's also okay if your child is not.)
Is the method appropriate for my child with special needs or developmental delays?
Most likely, yes, but it depends. Your child does not need to be fully talking to learn how to potty-train. However, with other needs or delays, it really varies since every child is so different. I have years of experience as a pediatric OT teaching children of various abilities how to use the toilet. If this applies to you, please email me at jessica@rootedinroutine.com and we can chat further!
We’ve tried potty training in the past and failed. Will this work for us?
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What if we already potty trained but are still struggling with certain things (like accidents, withholding, poop, nighttime, etc)?
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My child is VERY strong-willed. How will this ever work?!
To be blunt, it's rare to meet a toddler who is not strong-willed… most toddlers are! They also tend to be opinionated and don't like to be told what to do : ) With my background in child development, I help you work with your child's natural tendencies and preference for control, while also holding certain new boundaries, to find a happy middle ground that works.
If you’re still not sure the Rooted Potty Method right for you and your child, please email me at jessica@rootedinroutine.com and let’s chat!
The OT Behind the Rooted Potty Method
Jessica Irwin is a pediatric occupational therapist, childhood routine expert, mom of two boys, and the founder of Rooted in Routine — a virtual parenting education platform helping parents build simple, realistic routines that actually work in real life with real toddlers.
With over 10 years experience working in schools, daycares, early intervention, and private clinics, she kept seeing that parents were desperate for realistic potty training guidance, but the advice out there was all over the place and rarely worked in practice.
That frustration pushed her to dig deeper into the developmental, behavioral, and sensory aspects of potty training, and over the years, she's helped hundreds of families get their kids potty trained using her signature routines-based potty training method.
She now helps parents all over the world potty train their children inside The Rooted Potty Method.
Once your child learns to use the potty, they’ll do it every single day for the rest of their life. And she wants to help you get there as smoothly, quickly, and stress-free as possible!
DISCLAIMER: All of the information presented by Rooted in Routine is published in good faith and for general information purposes only. The information contained within this program is intended to provide general, developmentally-appropriate advice and strategies that are typically well-tolerated.
NOT MEDICAL ADVICE: This information is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or direct therapy of any kind. It is not meant to replace a visit with your child's pediatrician, or a referral to an occupational therapist, physical therapist, or other qualified provider for medical or developmental concerns. Always consult your child's healthcare provider before starting any new routine, especially if your child has a known medical condition, developmental difference, or a history of constipation or withholding.
INDIVIDUAL RESULTS VARY: Every child is different, and potty training is a non-linear process. Rooted in Routine does not guarantee any specific outcome or timeline. The strategies in this program have helped many families, but your child's progress will depend on their unique development, temperament, and readiness, as well as your own consistency.